Just to add to the confusion my humble opinion is to go for a four or five speed manual. Then you are in control of what gear you need. I love automatics because they allow me to drive braindead, but much prefer a manual. And changing a burnt clutch is much cheaper than changing a burnt auto. A manual box seldom to never overheats either. Autos, with big tires and a powerful engine especially, really should have some serious cooling beyond the radiator, no problem but it's still a lot of dollars both to start and to maintain. And don't forget, as soon as the mud plugs the cooler fins up it gives up a lot of it's cooling capability right when it's the most important.
Just something to consider.
And, like everyone else said, ya really need deeper gears no matter what you decide. 3.73's don't work very good with any tire over 33". Again, just my opinion.