well i put it up on a lift and check all the wires gave them good tugs to see if anyone could move. checked all the fuses took out all the relays wiggled every connection i could find inside the cab and under the hood. the only loose wires were the battery cables, were really loose but i got a half turn off the positive and quarter turn off the neg. i wiggled all the wires with the engine running and with just the key "on" with radio/lights and fan running and nothing i did reproduced the issues i was having. that was monday and "knock on wood" no issues since.