i did check the clearance. they were all very tight with no slop other than one exhaust valve that had the tiniest little bit of play.
so after i posted here and forgot about doing so, i went ahead and started on the seals the next day. turns out the umbrellas were on only the intake valves on my heads. so i went ahead and replaced both kinds on the intakes and just the o rings on the exhausts.
and its no wonder the valves were leaking. only 4 of the orings were actually undamaged. all the others were broken, half gone, or on 3 of them they were gone completely