i figured thats where i would start, since i isolated the tank, lines, and pump.
i finally took it into my mechanic on the west end, it stalled and would not start again, no fuel spray into the carb.
i told him what happened and what i replaced etc, took him 2 days to find this:
The cam lobe for the fuel pump was worn down. He said that he doesnt think he has ever seen that go before, the other lobes all the time but not that one.
so his recommendation is to put in a stand alone electric fuel pump, wait to replace the cam because if i do then it will stress the other parts of the engine, just wait for the rebuild and do it then, sounds about right to me.