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you should be able to get away with using "the right stuff"
For the rear, I would put a jack under the transfer case to hold it up, and remove the crossmember.If you've got a welder, you can tack weld a new slightly smaller bolt to the broken one, and use that to twist it out.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YH4f6R9dfY